11.03.2015
Men don't always talk directly about their feelings and emotions. Sometimes it is difficult to understand what is going on in his soul, and how he treats his chosen one! If this is the beginning of your acquaintance, pay attention to his gestures. Luckily, a man's body language is text that is easy to read!
Here is a list of signals that indicate his interest.
1. Pay attention to his pupils, they are enlarged. This is a typical brain reaction when it likes something (or someone)!
2. His eyebrows are raised, especially when you speak. He subconsciously makes this gesture to increase his field of vision.
3. He smiles, showing his teeth. Men smile, therefore, only when they are truly happy.
4. The man smiles from ear to ear. A sincere smile causes men in particular to wrinkle their forehead and squint their eyes. If a man smiles in this way, it means that he wants to attract female attention.
5. Focuses his gaze on your face. He's guaranteed to like you if he devotes 80 percent of his attention to looking at your eyes, nose, and mouth.
7. He takes a deep breath when he sees you. Air intake leads to the fact that rib cage widens and the waist narrows. This is a sign that the guy subconsciously wants to be attractive to you.
8. He leans towards you a little when you say something, even if he hears you perfectly. This means a deep interest in your words.
9. When he turns towards you, places his hands on his hips with the elbows out. The man, thus, shows that he wants to focus your attention on himself.
10. When he removes a lint or speck from your blouse, it means that he is trying to initiate physical contact in order to see your reaction. Wants to be closer to you.
11. Sits with legs wide apart. Thanks to this position, he shows his very sensitive "masculinity". This is a subconscious way to show not only the openness of the personality, but also mental activity.
12. Moves (carefully) a little closer if you are sitting next to. This means that he is hunting you.
13. Involuntarily directs the toe of the shoe in your direction. However, if you touch his shoulder and you notice that his legs are moving away from you, it means that he has lost interest.
14. Swinging legs - an attempt to attract attention. If a man crosses his legs or stretches out, this means a lack of interest on his part. If, he shifts from foot to foot, but the rest of his body is facing you, this means shyness.
15. Comes closer to you when you say something. This is a sign of interest.
16. If during a conversation he does not focus his gaze on you, this means that he is looking out for someone else. However, if he asks a lot of questions and looks for similarities, and his gaze wanders, this may mean sheer shyness.
17. Touches his neck. This can mean not only interest, but also fear about your relationship. It depends on the context.
18. When he holds your hand, interlaces his fingers around yours, it means that he wants to get to know you better.
19. Touches your hand when he speaks. This means that he wants your attention, wants to be heard. There is a desire to impress.
20. Casually touches your leg, but quickly removes his hand. This means that the man is interested in having sex with you. If, he removes his hand, slowly, and at the same time smiles, this means that he loves you very much.
21. Walks next to you, and at the same time does not notice the road ahead of him. However, if he walks several steps ahead of you, he is more focused on himself.
2015-03-11But in fact, the question of what men in love do and say is really interesting and very peculiar. In fact, there is no single set of special differences by which you can immediately determine whether a person loves you and how much. Everyone knows that each of us is an individual, respectively, and we have different manifestations of emotions. Some guys read poetry, dedicate songs, and have romantic dates. And someone silently repairs all the equipment in the house, goes shopping and helps in everything. But, nevertheless, in the behavior of everyone young man there is that barely perceptible, but so sincere and real, which without words confirms his love.
First of all, it is a look. No matter how the guy denies and hides his feelings, the look will certainly give him away. When you love a person, you want to constantly look at him, look into his eyes, study every millimeter of the body. And even if the feelings are trying to hide and the gaze is constantly averted, all the same, at some point a man forgets about control and thoughtlessly looks at his beloved. And yet, in this look, special sparks of feelings and desires are visible. This is a kind of admiration mixed with erotic fantasies. When a man is in love, a woman really feels like she is being looked at as if she were a goddess. The point is precisely in this look. It expresses the full spectrum of a young person's emotions. And we all know that love evokes many positive feelings. It seems to us that the object of love is amazing, beautiful, the best and unforgettable. If a woman, far from self-confident, begins to feel very attractive and special under someone's gaze, there is no doubt that this guy is madly in love with her. And such emotions and changes in attitude towards oneself appear because the young man really sees the queen in her and transfers his feelings to her on the energetic, emotional level.
Several "symptoms" of falling in love
Another confirmation of love in non-verbal communication between people is, of course, the desire to touch a person. In such cases, the guy can sit next to him, as if casually touching his hands, his hair - he does this carefully and almost imperceptibly. Even if he is sitting opposite, he will still hook you with his foot or touch your hand when he is transmitting something. Well, if a young man constantly takes your hands in his own, closes them in a lock, strokes his fingers, touches his hair, constantly hugs, kisses his hands and does not let go even in his sleep - he loves you, and very honestly, sincerely and not wanting anything in return. When feelings are absolutely pure and sincere, a person simply needs to be near the object of love and touch him. Moreover, this does not always have a sexual connotation. In many cases, it all comes down to the desire to show your love and tenderness through touching, stroking, kissing hands, cheekbones, hair. This is the identification of the highest feeling, somewhat parental, when you want, as if to wrap a loved one in your tenderness and protect with kisses and hugs from all the evil in the world.
Generally than more man hugs a woman, the more he presses to him, the stronger his feelings. Thus, he simultaneously wants to protect her from potential offenders and show all possible rivals that she belongs only to him and he certainly will not give her to anyone.
If a guy touches your hands
Many women believe that an indicator of love is whether a guy gives his hand, opens doors and other such things. In fact, this is not an indicator of love, but an indicator of upbringing. But, if a man is not a true gentleman, this does not mean that he cannot truly love. It's just that such a guy expresses his love in other ways. Perhaps he will not give a bouquet of flowers, but he will put new windows in the house with his own hands, or he will always fix your car. Gallantry is, of course, very good. But not all gallant men express romantic feelings with their actions. Some of them are simply accustomed to behave this way with women, and some of them, by such actions, lull our attention and distract from their serious shortcomings and mistakes. Therefore, if you want to understand whether a guy really loves you, determine how much he is ready to help you morally and financially. This does not mean that a young man is obliged to constantly console, to conduct endless conversations that the whole world is terrible, and you are the best and buy gold rings every week. It is about something else. For example, whether he is able to come to you at any time and fix problems with your computer (water supply, electricity), whether he can pick you up from work at a later time, and it does not matter, by car or on foot, and whether he will support you in the really difficult moments of your life and find real ways to solve problems. The fact that a guy is ready to shoot a star from the sky for a girl is certainly wonderful. But, true love manifests itself not in abstract concepts, but in whether he will cook dinner when you come tired from work or clean the apartment if you feel bad.
Actions speak about everything
All women tend to believe in romance and expect manifestations of feelings only through romantic acts. This is not surprising, because we are all brought up on romantic films and fairy tales about princesses, for whom the knights on a white horse perform feats. But, if you think wisely and maturely, you should understand that love manifests itself not only in this, but, sometimes, not in this at all.
And how does a guy in love prove his feeling, what he says? A man in love tries to make his woman's life easier and happier. He does not try to kill dragons and travel far and wide to bring the firebird. Instead of this, loving guy will look for ways to make enough money to provide for his woman and save her from unnecessary worries and work. Loving man will always be there, and every day in his gaze you can read: I love you. And when he hugs you, you will understand that no castles and walls, no knights from women's novels will not be able to protect you from adversity, as he will.
- He minimizes the distance between himself and her, because he likes her, so he wants to touch her. But he is not satisfied with touching hand to hand. I want something more. And he chose a face. It seems to be more neutral than many others, but also impressive.
- With his touches, he realizes himself to some extent as a man. When your face is in my hands - this is a demonstration of care, guardianship.
Personally, it happened to my future husband. He just stroked my face endlessly. Sometimes it was even embarrassing when we were traveling on public transport. But at the same time with a slight annoyance, I blissed out the realization that they loved me. After all, this is nothing more than an expression of love. Only a deeply in love person can endlessly iron the hair, the face of a loved one. Now I really miss such touches, I can't even believe that they once irritated me. Now I remember with nostalgia. But everyday life has stuck, alas, and there is almost no room for romance. If you write about yourself, then congratulations!)) The young man is very in love and this is a fact.
This gesture can be deciphered as a manifestation of incredible tenderness. Often guys do this when, in fact, he wants to squeeze the girl in a hug, but he is afraid, considering the girl “porcelain”, thinking that he might harm her.
Often, in conjunction with this gesture, the guy gently kisses the hands, each finger. And he calls the girl svom angel or angel.
This means that he really likes the girl. Although the girl herself may not like such gestures at all.
Decipher the gesture: the guy really wants to kiss the girl and will be incredibly happy if the girl also takes his face in her hands and touches his face every now and then.
And the guy really likes the face of this girl and the girl herself.
Not all gestures lend themselves to unambiguous wording, but when a guy constantly touches a girl's face, then this is just very easy to decipher:
In short, this is a manifestation of male sympathy without looking for some too original algorithms.
Only a beloved boyfriend can touch a girl's face and not look strange or beaten at the same time. If a girl is annoyed with such a gesture, maybe she should talk to a guy about it? I exclude the options of the blind guy (who touches the face in order to repeat the facial features of the girl in this way) and darkness (in the dark, the face can be taken by accident).
If the gesture is full of tenderness ... there is no need to doubt the impulse of love. Thus, the guy shows his affection, reverent attitude towards the girl, touches his beloved, touches himself beautiful face(undoubtedly for him this is so). Too often? Talk to him about this so that the gesture does not become annoying over time.
We want to touch the object of our love: with our soul, with our hand, with our whole body ... this is so natural. Someone does not know how to express their feelings in words, so impulses and touch become the only opportunity to express their feelings. Or maybe fewer words and more deeds? The girl wants words and confessions, so guys should not forget to at least occasionally express their thoughts through words ... she will guess herself - not at all our option.
By touching his face, the guy shows his admiration and shows tenderness. This gesture can be considered very frank and is unlikely to be performed in public place may be decent (better in private). Check your senses if you still don't understand the nature of touch.
Everything that has been touched with love ... is magical.
All that is touched with tenderness ... is protected.
All that touched by the soul ... forever.
If sober, he touches and begs - an additional means of pseudo-hypnosis ...
If drunk, screams and touches - takes aim, chooses where smudge lantern ...
If he is silent and touches, he does not believe that this is not a dream and with words he is afraid to frighten off happiness ...
If he touches and licks his lips, it is urgent to bake pancakes with jam or sour cream ...
If he touches and takes his face in his hands, he wants sex, but fearing to scare off the girl, he puts off again a hint so that for another meeting to pick up more compelling arguments and more softer than a word secretly hoping that she will be the first to talk about it ...
If he touches it often and his hands smell like chebureks, he wipes it off for lack of a scarf ...
If he touches and slightly moves his fingers - maybe he has a talent for massage - check on the shoulders, collarbones, back, and at home go to the erotic version ...
If it touches and removes with difficulty, it means that something has been glued before, perhaps a shoe)))
While some of the signals seem pretty simple, others look very different. Read on to find out how men subconsciously use body language to suggest to you that you are right for them.
Steps
First impression
- Watch also his pelvis. If you are standing at a distance, but his pelvis is directed in your direction, then perhaps he is interested in you.
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Look furtively at the position of his legs: if they are set wide apart, then he tries to look more powerful, and shows it to you. ...
Pay attention to his hands. If he puts his hands on his belt or in his pockets, he may be trying to draw your attention to that part of his body. Moreover, if he keeps his hands on his hips, then he is trying to look more powerful and sexy to you.
Assessment of his laugh. Does he laugh easily next to you? A man who is passionate about you and who is comfortable with you will laugh more freely next to you than a man who you do not care about. In addition, he will try to make you laugh or notice him too. If your partner looks exceptionally stupid or loud around you, he hopes you will find him as funny as he finds himself.
Be mindful of how close he is to you. He will probably stand closer to you until you see it to check how comfortable you are with him. During a normal conversation, a person stands at a distance of 1.5-2 meters from the interlocutor. If he is closer, then this is a signal that he likes you.
Pay attention to the closeness between you as you sit. Your calves are pressed against each other, he leans very close and presses his shoulder against you to whisper something, he puts his head on your shoulder or slightly nudges you - these are clear signals that he is trying to pique your interest.
Comparing his body to yours. It may sound strange, but has he tried to compare the size of his hand with yours? Did he admire the difference in the proportions of your bodies? If you are interested in him as a person, then he will be interested in your body, as a part of you. Depending on the guy, it can be either naive curiosity or his interest in your body sexually. This could be the key to whether he likes you as a person or just likes your body.
Look deeper into his eyes. Does he blink often? Does his pupil dilate in your presence? These signals indicate that he is interested in you. What's more, it can stop at you long look... Prolonged eye contact (not the boring eye) can be a signal that he wants to get to know you.
Observe the face of the guy you went on a date with. More often than not, flirting begins with facial expressions. Here are a few tips to help you understand what your boyfriend is thinking:
Pay attention to eye contact. If you've just met, he'll probably look away every time you look at him. The more comfortable you feel with each other, the stronger the eye contact will be, and it will last longer than a couple of seconds.
Watch his chest. The man considers his torso to be the most important detail in the room. Thus, even if a man looks the other way, but he is interested in you, then his shoulders and chest will be directed in your direction.
- Don't jump to conclusions.
- Don't be confused with the meaning of the signals. For example, just because he is pointing his body in your direction does not necessarily mean that he is interested. Take some time to read ALL signs for the correct solution.
- Compare his behavior with you and with other girls. If he's flirtatious with everyone, then it might be just plain flirting.
- Don't let his friends scare you away! A guy will love a girl who stands out and is confident!
- Try talking to him about topics that you both are interested in. If he does not look at you during the conversation, then he is not interested in you.
- Make sure he is REALLY interested in you before revealing his secrets and secrets to him.
- Find out if his smile is natural. Obviously, a genuine smile is a signal that he is interested in you and feels comfortable with you.
- Be yourself and take your time. Let him get your attention and only then make your move.
Interaction with other people occurs on several levels. The first level is verbal, that is, communication through speech. The second level is non-verbal, which includes body language and gestures. And if we have learned to masterfully control the verbal way of communication, then the language of signs is controlled exclusively by our subconscious. The richness of body language is in no way inferior to the richness of our speech. When we are agitated, agitated, upset, annoyed, or carried away, our body gives certain signals to the interlocutor.
Interestingly, both women and men have a non-verbal way of communication. We use different signals just to convey our emotions. It is very difficult to master the language of gestures and facial expressions thoroughly. At least, psychologists have been learning this art for many years, but then they succeed literally from the first seconds, looking at the face or body reaction of the interlocutor, to determine his true feelings. Since a person's subconscious mind never lies, we simply have to learn the basics of a man's body language in order to understand how he treats us. Moreover, if a man is interested in you, it will be immediately noticeable by his facial expressions, gestures and body movements.
10 body language signals of a man in love
1. He raises his eyebrows
If, at the sight of you, a man slightly raises his eyebrows and immediately lowers them, this indicates his interest. This fleeting movement simultaneously displays joy and surprise. But if during a conversation a man raises his eyebrows and is in no hurry to lower them, most likely he is skeptical.
2. It reaches towards you with its body
When we like someone, subconsciously we strive to get closer to that person. For example, if a man sits opposite you and tilts his torso slightly in your direction, this means that you are attractive to him. You can also rest assured of his sympathy if, being in society, he seeks to turn his body and shoulders more in your direction.
3. He doesn't know where to put his hands
Hand movements very eloquently convey a person's feelings. While talking to a man, observe his hands. If he randomly touches something, shows his palms, touches a belt or pockets, this indicates that in this moment he wants to turn the conversation to another topic and attract attention to himself. These gestures also convey embarrassment, which, as you know, occurs only in relation to people who are not indifferent.
4. He touches his hair
Hair is a source of pride for women. Therefore, when we unconsciously try to attract attention to ourselves, we begin to correct them, twist them, string them on a finger, etc. Although men usually cannot boast of bright hair, they use the same signal to attract the attention of the person they like. If you see that the man in front of you has begun to ruffle or smooth his hair, know that he is preening so that you pay attention to him. A similar meaning is symbolized by touching a mustache or beard.
5. He goes to the beat with you
A man's step is much wider than a woman's. But if you are walking next to a man who is in love with you, you do not have to catch up with him by all means, because it will keep pace with you. By adjusting to your step, the man subconsciously demonstrates his interest and disposition towards you.
6. Mirror effect
According to psychologists, if you are not sure about the feelings of a man, when communicating with him, start gesticulating and observe whether he repeats your movements or not. As a rule, for real interested person will begin to unconsciously imitate your gestures. This effect occurs when a man's subconscious seeks to demonstrate that he is your friend and will not harm you.
7. During a conversation, he makes eye contact
Usually it is difficult for men to keep track of the logic of women's speech. But if a man is in love, he will listen, literally, to every word from your lips. If during your monologue a man looks you in the eyes, does not make unnecessary gestures and does not look away, this indicates either his interest in you, or that you are a very good storyteller.
8. He gestures intensively.
When a person is in a calm state, he uses a minimum of gestures. But if he is excited, excited or interested in attracting the attention of the interlocutor, his gestures become more expressive, brighter and more intense. If, even at this moment, the man suddenly begins to speak a little faster than usual, do not doubt that he likes you. Thus, the man subconsciously seeks to hold your attention.
9. He touches you
When communicating with a person who does not arouse any interest in us, we avoid touching him and keep our distance. But if you notice that during a conversation a man discreetly touches you, gives you a hand or holds you while walking, this means almost 100% that he is very interested in you. Tactile cues also indicate that he likes you sexually.
10. He speaks softly and muffled
The voice is the subconscious instrument of seduction. If a man needs your attention, he will speak softly and muffledly, as if he is giving you a secret that no one else should know about.
In the early stages of dating, the fear of rejection and embarrassment can "interrupt" body language. If you have a shy man in front of you, try to be the first to convey your disposition in a non-verbal way - show open palms, look into his eyes and smile. Subconsciously, a man will feel your mood, which will help him act more decisively and courageously.
